Is anyone else nervous about the fact that I haven’t bought any Christmas presents?December 12th, 2005 @ 7:41 am

So Christmas is in like, what, 2 days? Okay, maybe that’s an exaggeration. But it’s close.
In both my family and The King’s family we draw names for who buys presents for who. This makes it easier, and less expensive than buying for everybody in both families. This year we drew my little brother and little sister, as well as The King’s little sister and her husband. We also try to get something thoughtful for each set of parents.
We were able to find my little sister something at Sephora in Paris (which I hope she likes, but you never know). That leaves gifts for two grown men (both new fathers) and one gift for The King’s baby sister (new mom to twins). I have no ideas. None. Zilch. Zero.
I had a great idea for The King’s sister and her hubby. They are absolutely in love with the Dallas Mavericks. So I figured I could buy them tickets to when they are out here to play the Sonics this year. Then I found out they had already bought tickets. Which, hello, of course they did. But that leaves me (again) with NO IDEAS.
My little brother loves video games, and plays them far too much of the time. I do not condone this activity. Especially now that he has a brand new baby. Although buying him a new game for his gaming system is the easy answer for a gift, I don’t want to do it. It will be my last stitch effort. One that I hope I don’t have to resort to.
I don’t even want to talk about the fact that I haven’t bought one single gift for The King. No joke. Nothing. I have a list of ideas, but when I went out shopping for some of them, my list became really silly looking and I didn’t buy any of them. He doesn’t need clothes (at all), he got some new cologne in Europe, he doesn’t play video games, he already has an iPod, he got a new bike a few months ago, and we don’t really like to buy DVD’s. So what does that leave to buy him? Pretty much nothing. And the one good gift idea I had was an online thing, and it’s probably getting too late to order anything online. This is my own fault.
And then there’s me. People ask me what I want, and I don’t even know what to tell them. I can usually ask for some clothes, but I don’t really want maternity clothes. Should I ask for “baby items”, or is that tacky? I don’t know. You would think that I would have a list of things that I would love for someone to buy me. The only thing I can think of is another pair of boots. The King bought me a great pair last Christmas, and they are getting ready to be retired.
One a little different note, The King and I are hosting the Ornament Exchange we have every year with our 4 closest friends. It is this Saturday night. Which isn’t as far off as I initially thought it was. The ornament exchange is a great idea and we usually make sentimental ornaments for each other. I haven’t begun to think about what I could make for them. I guess I need to make a trek to the craft store in my spare time this week. And then I’ll actually need to find time to make the ornaments and get ready for the party.
Thankfully enough we did buy a kitchen table this weekend for our apartment (with the winnings from my company Holiday party). Our other tables were too big, and had to be left behind at the house. I am not sure how many people will fit at the new table. Maybe just The King and I and Preston, the cat. Having parties in this places is going to be hard.
What I’m getting at is, does anyone have some really awesome gift ideas that they want to share with me? And does anyone want to come over and help me make some ornaments for my friends? Anyone?
**and yes, that is a picture of me on my first Christmas.**
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The King
said,
December 12, 2005 at 8:59 am
i didnt realize your boots were already junk. that was fast. maybe i should have bought better ones. are they falling apart?
what is a ‘last stitch effort’? isnt it ‘last ditch’?
ashley
said,
December 12, 2005 at 10:10 am
just as long as you get something extremely extravagant for me, we’ll be set.
Heather B.
said,
December 12, 2005 at 10:33 am
don’t ask for baby stuff for christmas. the presents you recieve should be for you, and isn’t that what a baby shower is for? Anyway, I’m a big fan of gift cards for people when I’m not sure exactly what to get them.
janet
said,
December 12, 2005 at 1:22 pm
I feel the same as you right now! ack! I got presents for the easy people, like my sister, but the hard people, like my future MIL, I HAVE NO CLUE!
I am sewing a ton of little tote bags as my last “stitch” effort — literally!
For the King’s sister, is it possible to get her some kind of pampering outside of the house of the manicure/pedicure/spa variety?
For the men, I am at a loss.
Your family sure is having a lot of babies lately huh!!
Contrary
said,
December 12, 2005 at 1:53 pm
Oh, Isabel, you’ve no idea how happy you’ve made me. Just knowing that someone else is an even bigger slacker about Christmas shopping than I am has made me a very happy girl.
I actually have a good bit of my shopping done. (dislocates shoulder patting self on back)
Hey,how about an idea of your budget for each gift so’s we can help you out with ideas?
TB
said,
December 12, 2005 at 2:52 pm
I don’t think it’s tack to ask for baby things. What about maternity clothes? You can always use those, right?
Also, I say if your brother likes video games, get him one. It’s easy and as long as it’s not a source of tension between him and his wife, you know he’ll like it.
I just made ornaments this weekend too. It was so much fun.
Good luck with the preparations!
Lisa
said,
December 12, 2005 at 3:07 pm
LOVE the photo. I’m with Heather. I know alot of people think gift certs are lame but really, at least then they can get what they want or need. With new parents, its good (in our experience) to get certs for eateries. Cause who wants to cook after you’ve gone to work or dealt with colicky infant all day?
Just a few thoughts.
But if you want baby stuff, go for it. Its less you’ll have to buy later. People rarely get everything they register for when they have the shower.